What Does A Woman Want In A Man


Have you found it difficult to attract the woman of your dream as a man? Maybe at times, you seem not to understand why it’s so. As you have a few things about a lady that attracts you, in that same way, ladies have some things about you that attract them. When these things are not there, she may find it difficult to get attracted to you. Here are 10 traits women look for in a man.


Women find it difficult to ignore a man who looks good whenever they see them. True or false? There is no better way to attract a woman than by looking good at all times. You never know where and when you will meet this woman of your dream, so the best thing to do is to look decent. Drees well at all times and maintain a good quality man wears. Put on attractive dresses and have your hair cut when due. Remember, good looks simplifies who you are.


A woman also looks for a man who knows how to speak to her and can engage her in a long conversation. Bring up contemporary issues and engage her in such discussions. No girl likes a man that will answer her, “that’s ok babe, do whatever you like”. Make your contributions when she needs them.

Girls like men who can stay on the phone and talk with them, for even hours. Every man loves to be entertained, so is every girl. A lady enjoys speaking with her man at all times no matter what.


No real woman likes a rude guy. In as much as women may play and chat with you if need be, this doesn’t mean that they will gladly accept to date you when they see you as a rude guy. Be nice to the people around you. Treat them with respect and expect to be treated in such a way.  Women have this feeling that responsible husbands and fathers are kind and well behaved.

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No one likes an inconsistent person. This is true. You won’t appreciate a woman who does not keep to her words. How do you think she will love you if you are fickle-minded? Women love men who believe in themselves and are firm with their decisions.

No woman loves a man who cannot defend his decisions or a man who is weak to take decisions. They feel insecure when they observe you cannot defend them. Be the hero she wants


To be attractive means to be eye-catching. You can’t be this if you don’t moderate your behaviour. What you eat and drink should be your concern. At least mind what you consume. You need to maintain a very good physique to attract a girl to yourself. Build and develop your abdominal muscles (six-pack) and not sit and get potbelly and expect her to admire you. Do some workout, this makes you look healthier and whatever clothes you put on, will definitely give you that charming look she craves for. Do not joke with your appearance.


All women love to be respected by their men and as such value it when their men are respected by their friends and peers. It isn’t your fault that somebody doesn’t respect you. Work on those faults of yours that make people disrespect you. If she finds out that people don’t respect you, this is a minus to you, but if your peers respect you, this is a credit.


For you to attract a lady, you must be principled. Being principled means being ethical and not “anything goes”. Be open and don’t accept to chew what you cannot swallow, hence she will see you as a principled guy. Don’t allow yourself to be taken for granted by your peers. Let your yes be your yes, and your no, be your no. be assertive with your NO.

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This is inevitable. This is one of the major traits women look for in a man. Confidence is something every man ought to have. A woman knows that a confident man has 100% belief in himself and trust his instincts and abilities. Hence, she loves this man because, he doesn’t quit his beliefs, no matter what may.


Even in the first conversation with a man, a lady decodes if he has a good sense of humour. This is what you need to impress her. When she discovers it’s fun to speak with you on the phone, she won’t avoid your calls even when she doesn’t feel like answering. Ensure you have not much affection for the downside parts of life and you are fun already to be with.


Financial security is important among the traits women look for in a man because it gives them a sense of belonging. I laugh when I hear guys say “money is not love”. Who told you this bro? Let us face the truth, money matters.

Even the bible knows that this is true (A feast is made for laughter, and wine maketh merry:  but money answereth all things) see Ecc 10:19. You get an advantage when you are equipped financially.


When you work towards developing these areas as a man, then you are on the part to success, when it comes to attracting that woman of your dream.

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